Funeral Service – Memorial Service – Switzerland – Funeral Officiant and Orator – Master of Ceremony – Zen Father Master Reding
Funeral Service - From Heart to Heart
In an hour of silence and farewell, I will accompany you with an open heart and reverent awareness. As an independent funeral orator, I create farewell ceremonies characterized by dignity, symbolism, and love – rituals that offer comfort, build bridges between heaven and earth, and honor the deceased with gratitude.
My ceremonies combine the clarity of Zen with the depth of Christian wisdom and monastic tradition. This will make your funeral a conscious, symbolic, and unforgettable experience—from heart to heart. Whether in a cemetery, at a memorial service with close friends, or at the scattering of ashes in the mountains, by a lake, or in the forest – the ceremony becomes a reflection of the personality of the person who has left us. Members of all faiths are welcome. Upon request, we interweave symbols and rituals from different traditions so that each mourner can find comfort in their own language of faith.
Each of us will eventually die through the natural process of birth, old age and death and therefore we should continually embrace the impermanence of life and death with all our hearts.
Funeral Service - Memorial Service
The funeral gives the relatives a spiritual, formal and public framework so that the event of death can be consciously carried out and processed. Since there are no obligatory and complex rituals for the funeral, the course of the farewell party will be decided in consultation with you.


Place of Burial - Scatter Ashes of the Deceased
Switzerland-wide & internationally: Determine the location and type of burial that is best for you. Whether the funeral should take place in the cemetery or whether the ashes of the deceased should be scattered (mountain, lake or forest), the ceremony will be carried out according to your wishes. In Switzerland, it is permitted to scatter the ashes of the deceased. On private property, the owner's permission is required to hold a funeral service.
Living Symbol - Secular and Non-Denominational Funeral Service
The funeral service is symbolic and non-denominational. Members of all faiths are welcome. Prayers and rituals from different religions can be included in the funeral according to your wishes.
The tragedy of our culture is that so many people no longer believe in symbolic language. And so they try to satisfy a spiritual longing with something physical, which never works. There is no saturation point for a spiritual longing with physical means. Until that symbol is alive as a living symbol, it cannot do its work of bringing us into our wholeness.
In this sense, the memorial service and funeral are carried out as a living symbol, with all those present becoming part of something greater.
Symbolic: unifying, bringing together, divine

Funeral Orator - Zen Father Master Reding
After ten years of intensive monastic training in Japan and Korea, Master Reding founded the christian Nigredo Order in Switzerland in 2014, supported by the mutual trust of lay people and clergy. In gratitude for this training, he made a 3,000-mile pilgrimage across Japan in the traditional alms round. As founder and abbot, he now leads the rustic, Christian-influenced Nigredo Monastery in Reichenburg. In the Nigredo Order, God is understood as religious experience and mysticism—the living core of every religion. It is not about dogma or mere knowledge, but about practice, realization, and the direct encounter with God.
Our family tradition is to find the "Church in one's own mind and God in one's own self." This is a traditional teaching of self-cultivation long forgotten by many in the East (Zen) and long lost in the West (mysticism).
Because the spirit of the times has diluted church, culture, and religion, and our society is increasingly losing its solid values—even to the point of disregarding femininity and dissolving the family principle—many people feel lost and abandoned. Master Reding therefore founded the Nigredo Monastery and the order—not to dictate to others, but to exemplify a path that leads back to faith, truth, and reason.
With this way of life, he honors his Zen masters in Japan and Korea by implementing and carrying forward the religiosity (Zen) he learned there in his own Christian tradition (mysticism).
Phoenix Ritual - Rebirth and Resurrection
The Phoenix Ritual: In a godless and fatherless time, we are often aimless and divided, especially when it comes to dying. To symbolize transience, relatives and guests burn a pinch of incense and sandalwood before the grave and during the burial. They are the relatives and acquaintances themselves who are part of the ceremony.
Annual Commemoration - Mourning & Gratitude
Anniversary (annual commemoration): We would also be happy to guide you through a memorial & remembrance ceremony. This can be held at the gravesite or at a location of your choice. Here you can find out more about customs after death...
Mandala Ritual - Return to God
The Mandala Ritual: If the funeral service takes place near a body of water (lake, stream or river), the Sand Mandala Ritual is ideal.
Fire Ritual - Purification & Peace
The fire ritual: Keepsakes, memorabilia, drawings or letters can be burned during the fire ritual at the funeral and symbolically given to the deceased person on their last journey.
Cost - Oblations for the Monk
You can have a say in the final donation. We would be happy to discuss the details in personal. The following applies as a guideline:
Ceremony: 850 CHF
+ Expenses (Reichenburg - Location - Reichenburg = ??? kilometers x 0.85 CHF/km)
+ Voluntary donation: ???
CHF final amount

Dear Funeral Speaker Father Reding,
it's been a few months since my daughter's funeral. Last year I had to bury my wife and now my daughter too. Both took their own lives. Of course, the question often came up as to why all this happened to me. Had I done too little? Could I help? What I have done wrong?
At first I didn't really want to come to the funeral and didn't know if I could go through with it. But now I am very happy and grateful. Because through the funeral service and your words at the ceremony, I was able to put everything in a larger context and slowly bring some order back into my life. I now see the grieving process as a great gift. I want to thank them from the bottom of my heart for what they do. With best regards,
Josef K. (85)
Dear funeral speaker zen master Reding,
It was a wonderful, gifted atmosphere that we were all able to experience in forest graveyard. The good Lord and karma gave my deceased wife wonderful weather, beautiful light effects, beautiful forest sounds and enchanted all friends in a relaxed, loving mood.
Many thanks for the calm and dignity that you radiated and sent to everyone and spiritually accompanied my wife with dignity on the way to the afterlife.
I would be happy to send you a little extra and wish you, your family and your work and projects all the best, lots of joy and many warm encounters and experiences. You're still so young, you still have so much ahead of you and that's wonderful.
H.H (72)
Contact
Tel: +41 (0)78 408 10 89
info@funeral-ceremony.ch
Kloster Nigredo
Zen Meister Reding
Ussbergstrasse 26
8864 Reichenburg, Switzerland